Every moderator has their own style. Mine is much like yours. The moderators here do not share that style. You are not forced to participate here, nor am I. But the history of what goes in this group are well established. You aren't going to get what you seek, and demanding it is neither helpful nor appropriate.
It is what it is. Exercise the control you can. It's there.
Brian - Windows 10 Pro, 64-Bit, Version 20H2, Build 19042
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